Are
you bothered that you come so quickly? Do you feel bad because you have no
self-control in bed?Do you believe that if you only knew how to prevent
yourself ejaculating too soon, then your lover would reach orgasm during sexual
intercourse? And how do you feel about yourself?
The
painful reality is that men who can prevent premature ejaculation seem to feel
much more powerful in all areas of their lives. Men who experience premature
ejaculation frequently question their masculinity and lose confidence in their
sexual performance, which often leads to feelings of lowered self-esteem.
Premature
ejaculation affects mainly ages younger than forty years, whereas erectile
dysfunction occurs more often in older men. In some cases, the two sexual
disorders may coexist and alternate in the same individual. This is more likely
to happen in ages between thirty five and forty five years.
Statistics show
that 35% of men in the USA and Europe experience premature ejaculation at some
stage of their life, before the age of forty five.
Related : Factors associated with P.E.
In some cases, early ejaculation and the emotional feelings surrounding the experience, if not discussed openly and constructively, can lead to serious relational conflicts and more sexual problems, like erectile difficulties and decreased sexual desire by one or both partners.
In some cases, early ejaculation and the emotional feelings surrounding the experience, if not discussed openly and constructively, can lead to serious relational conflicts and more sexual problems, like erectile difficulties and decreased sexual desire by one or both partners.
Psychological
factors commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. While men sometimes
underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional
well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress
over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history
of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence.
You
should consider the following tips:
· Kegel
exercises, which consist of flexing the pelvic muscle, also play an extremely
important role in achieving ejaculatory control. A person can learn to flex his
or her pelvic muscle by abruptly stopping the flow of urine while going to the
bathroom.
· Men
who suffer from premature ejaculation should also practice other forms of
relaxation, such as taking long, deep breaths. The male should learn to
sexually satisfy his partner, orally or otherwise, while she or he works with
him to overcome his premature ejaculation.
· Maintain
a healthy attitude toward sex. If you experience feelings of anxiety, guilt or
frustration about your sex life, consider seeking psychotherapy or sexual
therapy.
·
Keep
in mind that anyone can experience sexual problems. If you experience premature
ejaculation, try not to blame yourself or feel inadequate. Try speaking openly
with your partner to avoid miscommunication.
· Sometimes,
premature ejaculation goes away on its own over weeks or months. Working to
relieve stress or other psychological issues may help the situation to improve.
· Having more sex on a regular basis actually can help with premature
ejaculation. If your wife or girlfriend is complaining about PE, just tell them
you need to have sex more often, because practice makes perfect.